How do you stand in this now moment when someone (probably someone you love and care about) is yelling at you because of their story, not yours? When their story says, “you make my life unbearable because I feel inferior” what do you do with that as a now experience? How do you know […]
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Human politeness is limited because it tells you a story from your cultural bias. It says “being friendly is good but feeling angry is bad” so you pretend to be someone you’re not and live in a constant state of blame, shame and control. Whereas, intuitive-logic has access to all the information your human politeness […]
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Being blamed for being (or having) what others think they aren’t (or don’t have) is not uncommon. We probably don’t realise how much we compare ourselves to those around us, to those in our field (including people on television and social media). In fact, it becomes so invisible that we think our dislike of these people with their happy faces […]
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Q. How do you stay present when someone (probably someone you love and care about) is yelling at you because of their story? Example of blame. In her story about me (in comparison to the story about herself) it looks like I have the life she wants. It looks like I have the relationship she wants. […]
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The diversity of ways one can focus on what else is going on is almost an unknowable number. It is an unending thread that leads us around the world and back again as all genders, in all times, under all conditions. Such is the nature of oneness rearranging itself to be everyone and everything that can be known-thought-believed-argued or created…
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A new teacher gives the third grade an assignment and lets the students pair themselves up.
Two boys present a talk with crude remarks and largely inappropriate content. After their talk the teacher thanks them for their efforts and moves on the the next group without admonishment…
Continue ReadingI realise the focus of many business building campaigns is on the marketing you/we put out into the world. While that’s important, it’s also possible that there is no real separation between what comes into our inbox and what we deliver to our list/s. The trick is understanding what’s really going on. Let me explain. […]
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I am not a victim of circumstance. Nor am I a victim of the system currently in place. If I say, “I need to unpack the dishwasher before I write down my stream-of-consciousness brilliant idea…” then I do so because I have decided that this is necessary; knowing I have a choice. Knowing I can […]
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